The Servant As a Forgiver

NOTICE FOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT FORGIVENESS:

I. GOD FORGIVES US.

Read Psalm 103:1-5; 10-12.
It all begins with a proper understanding of God’s forgiveness! Forgiveness begins vertically (with God) before it can be established horizontally (with man).

II. OUR FORGIVENESS OF ONE ANOTHER.

1. The true servant does not keep score (Ephesians 4:31-32). We must not keep a record of those who have wronged us! We must be free from the bondage and baggage of grudges.

2. The true standard of forgiveness is found in the example of Christ (v. 32).“even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.” The phrase “even as” means in the same manner. We are to forgive in the same manner Christ has forgiven us.

3. The true servant of Christ will make things right with his brother (Matthew 5:23-24). Notice four things we are instructed to do:

a. Stop-“Leave there thy gift before the altar”
b. Go- “and go thy way”
c. Reconcile- “first be reconciled to thy brother”
d. Return- “and then come and offer thy gift.”

We must go personally to the offended brother!

III. HOW MANY TIMES SHOULD I FORGIVE MY BROTHER?

Is there a limit placed upon forgiveness? See Matthew 18:21-35

1. To refuse to forgive is hypocritical (vv. 32-33).

2. To refuse to forgive inflicts inner torment upon us (v. 34-35).

IV. HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

1. Focus fully on God’s forgiveness of you. Meditate on Psalm 103:1-5, 10-12 and personalize these words by substituting "me" and "my" for "us" and "your." Ponder the depth of God’s mercy and the debts against you He has graciously canceled.

2. Next, deal directly and honestly with any resentment you currently hold against anyone. Forgive and forget!